maturity...

most of us don’t want to be alone, it is true indeed that no man is an island and that man can’t live life ALONE...but sometimes we have to not because we ran out of companions but because when were alone,realization pops out. thus,by being alone we unconsciously open close doors and sees the invisible.

have you tried being alone? I mean… is there a time in your life that you want to escape friends, reject parties or isolate thyself because of an unknown reason? don't worry... it's normal! because sometimes, psychologically our system needs to reminisce the past, think over the present and be ready for the future…

being alone doesn't mean we don’t have friends to rely on, doesn't have any colleague to have fun with and doesn't have anyone to be it's just that being alone is a compensating factor of our weak system when everything makes commotion. remember that being alone is a choice, yes we choose to be alone.

being along is a part of maturing, not because we don’t want to mingle but we want to be independent enough to face the reality of life… yes, in being alone we gain independence.. the independence we need to survive the world we live in. Remember, we are the only ones who can decide for what’s going to happen with our life.. we need to stop relying to anyone and learn to trust ourselves.. and move on with our life following God’s errands. Because being mature is accepting the fact that no one is there to rescue you, everything you are and everything you have depends only to you..